RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

 What is that one thing that matters most to me?

A good relationship matters most to me.

Relationship is a connection that you link yourself to someone that cannot disconnect by a distance.

Relationship is a non-material reality but shown by physical and moral activity.

 Indeed relationship is a valuable thing to be cherished, a treasure to be kept, and a godly desire to cling on.

Relationship is attainable that you don't have to die for but to live for.

Is a relationship matter to you?

Why relationship matters to me? Because: 

First thing relationship builds good things.  A good relationship established a good communication because good connection creates savor in conversation. It builds friendship because a good relation connects us to a deeper connection to have intimacy. It builds family because relation is the foundation in building a family. Especially it builds unity because good relationships prevent fighting and indifference behavior. 

 Second thing, we are an interdependent being.

 We can't live without the other and we can't live well without good relationship. We need someone to cling on and we need someone to accompany us, especially if we are in the tough situation or in trials of life.  Some people live in bitterness and isolated themselves, due to painful experiences and darkest circumstances, but isolating ourselves is not the answer.  

 We did not achieve something if someone is not in our side. I learn how to walk because someone was patiently guiding me and that is my parent. I learn how to write and counting big numbers because someone taught me and that is our teachers. We achieve something not because of ourselves although we have a big part of it, but we can’t deny the fact that we attained those things because someone mentored us, motivated us, and molded us and especially our God that sustained us.   

  Thirdly, it is important to me because, a good relationship matters to God.

  God the father sent his only begotten son so that people will become a child of God by receiving his Son, Jesus Christ (John 1:12).That’s how important to God relationship is, he is willing to sacrifice his Son because of His love toward us (John 3:16).  Christ came into the world not to build a denomination but to build a relation. Christ died in order to bridge man to God. Sin separates us from God. Thank God for His love and grace we can be part in the family of God.

 Lastly, it matters to me because; it is a command of God.

    God commanded us to love our neighbor even our enemy (Matt. 5:44). It is easy to be kind to someone who will treat us nice and fair. But how about someone will treat us unfairly? Will destroy our reputation? And will degrade our dignity? Can we love them? In Ephesians 4:32 if someone makes a fault in us, the bible commanded us to forgive like the Lord Jesus Christ who forgives our sins. That’s how serious our God when it comes to relationship matter.

What can I say more? Good relationship can live you at ease, can lend you happiness and can get you out of distress. Relationship can't be compared to any wealth. Relation can connect you to different and unique experiences that you can't perceive.

 Good relationship matters most to me because relationship indeed matters!